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Just By The Grace Of God            Heavy rain reminds us of "challenges in life". Never ask for a " lighter rain ", just pray to God for a " better umbrella ". That is the attitude - trouble makes us stronger and draws us closer to God and also helps us to think deep and  moderate our attitude.            Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship. It's not how much we care in the beginning, but how much we care till the very end.            Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on what you make with them; a wall or a bridge ? Remember you are the architect of your life both success and misfortune .            Search for a good heart, but don't search for a beautiful face, because not all that glitter is gold , but good things are always beautiful.            It's not important to hold all cards of life, but it is of utmost importance to know how to play them well.          

How Desperation affects your Love,Relationship and Marriage Desperation & Love Are Not Feasible Our desperate situation affects us in our relationship. Desperation eats through us like cancer . ❝ This is the day that the lord has made,we will rejoice and be glad in it. Psalms 118:24 This unmatched quote is the cure to unhappiness , say it three times with Faith and it will manifest in your life. Whenever one of you is in pain try to use words that will soften the person's heart. Where God and love are, there is happiness . So a practical principle is creating happiness to practice love . Life means vitality and get your vitality from God. God is Love which creates happiness. In him was life and the life was the light of men John 1:4 If happiness is determined by

Relationships and marriage is no business deal I used to interpret the saying marriage is not for small children (small children is an african mode of expression fo naive persons), until I visited a female mentor who has been married for 47 years. I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years of marriage? Beaming, she retorted, my daughter, the expectations you bring into marriage will either spell its doom or success. I married my husband without expectations of enjoying his money or buying cars for myself, but with time, my patience, hardwork and God fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that. You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she pushes the spirit of her husband from the home, his essence seeks refuge outside the walls of his house and he begins to attain vibes on the streets. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house uncomfortable for him.

Relationships and marriage is no business deal Relationship or marriage requires 100% input from both parties. Before Christ became the husband (head) of church he was already 100% Full of the spirit of God. He did not offer to the church a half bred christ (husband) but a complete christ. Before engaging yourself in any relationship, make sure that you are ready for it. Some of us jumped into marriage just because our mates are getting married some jumped in because of money,fame,etc. I am urging us to make sure that we are ready, both physical and spiritually ready before jumping into marriage. Through wisdom is our house builded and by understanding it is established and by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasured riches. -Proverbs 24 vs 3-4 Give it everything you have, go into it with open heart and a clear mind. Don't give it a trial. Learn how to be grateful for everything you

       Your environment determines your state of mind. In most cases in life, where you're located determines how you feel, the friends you make and the person you end up marrying.          Most people think that relationships are just by divine inclination but in reality, it operates by the law of attraction. Who you are, is who you attract. We all have our emotional spectrum of different energies created from different feelings and there are positives and negatives of these emotions and until our emotional spectrum meets its direct opposite, no one will notice our existence, this is why we are always told to be ourselves instead of living a life of totally nature from what we actually are and at the end attract those who are also living double lives. This will result to a great catastrophe.         How you think, in most cases, is a function of where you are. Most people who were brought up under a rich and prosperous family with a wonderfully serene environment end up thin